Even though we don’t celebrate “Thanksgiving” here, we do see an awful lot of gratitude and ‘being thankful’ posts this time of year.
I’m all for it. The more gratitude the better I say! Why? It actually makes me feel BETTER both physically and emotionally.
“Gratitude can transform common days into thanksgiving, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings.”
A “gratitude list,” in case you’re not down with the self help book genre and trendy technique for feeling better, is an exercise designed to shift your mood and attitude. It is during times of profound irritation that gratitude lists have the most poignant impact on my life.
Gratitude and anger cannot inhabit the same emotional space.
No matter what form your gratitude list takes, it’s a free and utterly enjoyable way to bring light to your life. There are many benefits associated with creating more gratitude in your life. Consistently grateful people are happier and more satisfied with their lives—they even feel more physically healthy and spend more time exercising. Other benefits of finding your inner attitude of gratitude:
- You’re less likely to feel envy, because you’re grateful for what you have instead of always thinking about what you don’t
- You’re more likely to live within your means
- You’ll be more able to feel (and show) generosity to others
What does it mean to be grateful?
Gratitude can be defined as a feeling of thankfulness for a benefit that an individual has received. It is not the same as indebtedness where the individual feels that they owe something to somebody else and are therefore under obligation to repay them. People can experience gratitude towards other people or just the events in their life. Gratitude gives people a sense of grace.
Gratitude changes your brain…
Practicing gratitude increases your dopamine production which encourages your brain to seek our more of the same. It’s the brain saying, “Oh, do that again” which means the more you are grateful for, the more you will find to be grateful for.
Why make a list – can’t I just “think” it and get the same result?
The aim of a gratitude list is to help people focus on the good things that are in their lives….. right NOW. We have a tendency to take things for granted, but this type of writing can prevent this from happening. By keeping a record of the things for which you are grateful, you can increase your positive mojo and have a new lease on life. How? (Glad you asked.)
Write out your gratitude list (yes by hand. no typing.) The actual physical experience of writing is valuable. The physical act of pen in hand helps imprint the feeling of gratitude at the cellular level. Also, since it is a slower process than typing, writing by hand provides more time for contemplation, which makes for a more thoughtful list.
Get REAL (no really.) Avoid setting yourself up for failure by starting with a reasonable number. If you try something crazy like ‘100 things I’m grateful for’, you’ll end up including stuff that not even the most zealous gratitude junkie would list. Better to limit yourself to one good reason than to dredge up sludge from a too-deep well.
A picture’s worth a thousand words. If writing isn’t your thing you can channel your inner creative and make a vision board. A vision board is a tool used to help clarify, concentrate and maintain focus on a specific life goal. Literally, a vision board is any sort of board on which you display images that represent whatever you want to be, do or have in your life. This powerful tool serves as your image of the future – a tangible representation of where you are going. It represents your dreams, your goals, and your ideal life. Your mind responds strongly to visual stimulation-by representing your goals with pictures and images you will actually strengthen and stimulate your emotions.